Some people think that having self-discipline prevents you from being open and natural. They think you should just relax and let everything flow freely. But to do so is not contradictory to being disciplined. In fact, you can be truly open only if you are disciplined.
from the book "Wisdom Energy: Basic Buddhist Teachings"
ISBN: 978-1614290018 - http://amzn.to/1otSg5w
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